Strength and Softness

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This weekend at Stil Studio during Kevan’s morning class he focused on the idea of strength and softness. I immediately was reminded of a  blog I wrote earlier in the year about these two opposing feelings. Our practice is always a combination of both. It has to be in order to be effective. When we are in a physically challenging pose we need our strength to get into the pose and we need softness in order to remain in the pose.

A member of the Stil Studio community has recently had to test her ability to combine strength and softness. Ali Barton was recently diagnosed with a serious heart condition and was told she needed a heart transplant. Since she is pregnant she had to choose to either abort the baby, or wait another five weeks until the baby can be delivered, and then she will be put back on the heart transplant list. She will need strength and softness to get her through the next few weeks. Although I am sure I have probably been in class with Ali before, I have never actually met her. It is clear though, from the outpouring of support, that she is an amazing person who people love. The studio is holding a benefit class for Ali and has set up a site for people to donate to help offset her medical costs during this time. Please keep Ali and her family in your thoughts and prayers throughout the holiday season.

http://www.gofundme.com/rally-for-ali

-Ali

Soft nature of a person does not mean weakness, Remember : Nothing is softer than water, but its force can break the strongest of rocks. ~ Author Unknown
 

Strength and Softness

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The other day in class many of the poses we were doing required both strength and softness. While we were required to slowly soften into a pose in order to get optimal benefit, we also had to maintain our strength in order to hold the poses. This idea of combining strength and softness, two things that seem to be direct opposites, is a learning experience. It was not easy to practice these two ideals together, but once I accepted that I could embrace both at the same time, they worked harmoniously together. Sometimes in life we are required to utilize multiple practices, emotions, feelings, ideas, morals, etc. at one time. This is not always easy, but with practice it can be rewarding, almost peaceful. Once I was able to wrap my head around the idea that I had to slowly soften into an uncomfortable position, using my strength to keep me there, I immediately felt all the tension in my body melt away, and over time the poses actually started to feel good!

Moral of today’s class: Next time you are in an uncomfortable circumstance, physically, emotionally or spiritually, try to combine strength and softness to get through it

-A

“Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength”

                                               -Saint Francis de Sales

Yoga Reaches Out

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The thought of writing this blog post was very overwhelming to me. Not because of the fact that I don’t want to to write it, but because I have SOOO much to write. The past few weeks have been a whirl wind. By now I am sure everyone knows about the events that have taken place in Boston, and while life has resumed here for the most part, the tragedy is still very fresh in most people’s minds. I don’t want to spend this post writing about the horrific events of last week though, rather I want to focus on the way that the city of Boston, and the world, has responded to these events. I have lived in Boston my whole life, and I have never seen a group of people come together the way that people have during this time. We obviously saw the heroic actions of many on Marathon Monday, but the kindness has not stopped. From restaurants not charging customers for their meals, to yoga studios offering free classes, the community here has stepped up to try and ease the pain that is so prevalent within everyone.
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On Sunday April 28th I was lucky enough to attend an incredible event at Gillette Stadium in Foxboro, MA hosted by Yoga Reaches Out. I cannot condense yesterday’s experience into one post, so I will probably be referring to in many future posts. Yoga Reaches Out, founded by Sarah Gardner, truly exemplifies the impact that a group of people can have when they come together. Yesterday 1,000 people unrolled their yoga mats with some of the most amazing yoga teachers that exist, to practice 5 hours of yoga in an effort to raise money for Children’s Hospital Boston and The Children’s Tumor Foundation.  The morning portion of the event featured teachers Jill Abraham, Jacqui Bonwell, Goldie Kaufenberg, David Magone, Shawn Shaw, and David Vendetti & Todd Erik Skoglund. Some of these teachers I had practiced with before, some I hadn’t. All were amazing. After lunch we had the privilege of being lead by teacher Bryan Kest, the founder of Power Yoga. I’ll be honest, I didn’t know who he was before this, but in the Yoga world he is a big time celeb (he is also hilarious and I definitely fell out of a few poses from laughing so hard). Bryan immediately explained that people are often mislead by the title “Power Yoga” because we think of it as something that is physically very intense and therefore we are intimidated by it. He named his form of yoga Power Yoga not because of a physical demand, but rather because of the power this practice can give us both mentally and physically. In the past decade yoga has become something that we try to perfect, judge,  and compete with, when in fact it’s real intention is to calm our bodies and  eliminate the need for perfection, judgment, and competition.
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Towards the end of his sequence Bryan had us in tree pose. Rather than tell us to try and balance and keep ourselves upwards, he actually wished that we would fall!
“I hope you fall into the person next to you and take out the entire row!”
He told us he didn’t really care to observe us balancing perfectly, rather he was more interested in seeing how we react when we fall over, because at some point we always will. Of course, I couldn’t help but relate this idea back to the events on Marathon Monday. As a city we fell over that day, but we proved our strength and resilience with our ability to rise from this fall.
Everyday at Children’s Hospital kids and families are faced with the reality of illness but their courage, tenacity, and support aid in their ability to stand back up. On Sunday 1,000 people got together and raised $500,000 for a cause that I think everyone unanimously would agree is an important one. It was an amazing day and I can’t wait for next year!

Moral of Today’s class Yogathon: The way we react when we fall strengthens us more than if we were to remain standing.
-A

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed, citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.”

-Margaret Mead